Starting with my parents and sisters, down to the LOVE of my life and our daughter. We have gone through a lot the past year and would not want to share some things because I wouldn't have time to write. But the number one reason a marriage can be broken is FINANCES. It is extremely important that the couples are in the same level and help each other. My husband and I struggled after the accident and everything fell behind. In the beginning it was a constant struggle because we both were not in the same mentality neither were helping each other. I was doing most of the things and on top of that being a wife, mother, woman, student, daughter, etc. I was doing everything, not because my husband wouldn't want to help, but because I didn't know how to ask for help and he assumed everything was fine.
However, I learned that COMMUNICATION is the key to a closer and deeper relationship with the person you love. Communication is everything!!!
I understood that taking the time to communicate with my husband, explain where my feelings were, and let him know how stressful I was, he had a better understanding how bad I was doing. I know now that men don't have the "special power" we as women have of seeing deeper than the surface.
The relationship my husband and I have now is deeper than ever. We see eye to eye. We know when to step away and when to hug. His warmth gives me comfort and his hugs gives me love.
His arms around me gives me protection and his actions security.
Many were against us, but we muted everyone and did what we wanted to do. It's not about what others think about us, but what we think about each other.
I thank God for the beautiful princess we have and her health. She keeps us on our toes, but I prefer energy than anti-social personality. She is such a talented young girl and loves to sing. Moreover, she's picking up her father's silly actions. We love her to death and always Pray that God keeps her save and healthy.
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